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Lewis Aron

 

Lew Aron and Karen Starr
A Psychotherapy for the People: Toward a Progressive Psychoanalysis

(Routledge, Relational Perspectives Book Series 2012)

How did psychoanalysis come to define itself as being different from psychotherapy? How have racism, homophobia, misogyny and anti-Semitism converged in the creation of psychotherapy and psychoanalysis? Is psychoanalysis psychotherapy? Is psychoanalysis a “Jewish science”?

Inspired by the progressive and humanistic origins of psychoanalysis, Lewis Aron and Karen Starr pursue Freud's call for psychoanalysis to be a "psychotherapy for the people." They present a cultural history focusing on how psychoanalysis has always defined itself in relation to an "other." At first, that other was hypnosis and suggestion; later it was psychotherapy. The authors trace a series of binary oppositions, each defined hierarchically, which have plagued the history of psychoanalysis. Tracing reverberations of racism, anti-Semitism, misogyny, and homophobia, they show that psychoanalysis, associated with phallic masculinity, penetration, heterosexuality, autonomy, and culture, was defined in opposition to suggestion and psychotherapy, which were seen as promoting dependence, feminine passivity, and relationality. Aron and Starr deconstruct these dichotomies, leading the way for a return to Freud's progressive vision, in which psychoanalysis, defined broadly and flexibly, is revitalized for a new era.

A Psychotherapy for the People will be of interest to psychotherapists, psychoanalysts, clinical psychologists, psychiatrists--and their patients--and to those studying feminism, cultural studies and Judaism.

http://www.amazon.com

Lewis Aron is the Director of the New York University Postdoctoral Program in Psychotherapy and Psychoanalysis. Author and Editor of numerous articles and books on psychotherapy and psychoanalysis, including A Meeting of Minds and the Relational Perspectives Book Series.  He was one of the co-founders of the journal, Psychoanalytic Dialogues. He has served as President of the Division of Psychoanalysis (39) of the American Psychological Association; founding President of the International Association for Relational Psychoanalysis and Psychotherapy (IARPP); founding President of the Division of Psychologist-Psychoanalysts of the New York State Psychological Association (NYSPA).  He is the co-founder and co-chair of the Sandor Ferenczi Center at the New School for Social Research, and is an Honorary Member of the William Alanson White Psychoanalytic Society.  He practices and leads numerous study groups in New York City and Port Washington, NY.

LEWIS ARON, Ph.D.
Director, NYU Postdoctoral Program in Psychotherapy & Psychoanalysis
lew.aron@nyu.edu
http://www.lewaron.com

Karen Starr Karen Starr is the author of Repair of the Soul: Metaphors of Transformation in Jewish Mysticism and Psychoanalysis. She is adjunct faculty and clinical supervisor at The Graduate Center, CUNY, and Long Island University. She is on the Editorial Board of the Psychoanalysis and Jewish Life Book Series. Dr. Starr is a candidate at the New York University Postdoctoral Program in Psychotherapy and Psychoanalysis, and a recipient of the Ruth Stein Prize. She is in private practice in New York City.

Karen E. Starr, Psy.D.
347 Fifth Avenue, Suite 1007
New York, New York 10016
(212) 779-7970
http://www.karenestarr.com

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Asaf Rolef Ben-Shahar, PhD
with introductions by Sharon Ziv Beiman, PhD and Jacqueline Carlton, PhD
A Therapeutic Anatomy – Body psychotherapy
[Hebrew Edition],
Haifa: Pardes
http://www.pardes.co.il

The therapeutic encounter is a meeting of embodied-psyches, of two bodies present to one another, dialoguing, influencing and being influenced; bodies waiting for us to listen to them and speak their language. (use preceeding sentence on front page then click to rest of article)  Relational psychoanalysis has been exploring this dynamic for three decades, body psychotherapy – since the 1930s.

A Therapeutic Anatomy examines the history of body-psychotherapy, offers conceptualizations and theoretical and clinical understandings.  It is rich with clinical vignettes and practical exercises, all of which aim to familiarize the reader with a deeper understanding of the place of the body in psychotherapy, thus allowing the reader a dynamic, curious and affect-laden reading experience.

In particular, the book is a celebration of relational body-psychotherapy, enabling the reader a personal and professional journey into the complexities of  the therapeutic relationship through eyes that are both anatomical and relational. Please note the book is in Hebrew.

Dr. Asaf Rolef Ben-Shahar is the training director of the Relational Body-Psychotherapy programme at the Israeli Centre for Body-Mind Medicine, a relational psychotherapist, a writer and a teacher and lecturer in Israel and Europe.

Dr. Asaf Rolef Ben-Shahar
The Relational Body-Psychotherapy Programme
The Israeli Centre for Body-Mind Medicine
103b Shivtey Israel, Ramat Hasharon
Tel: +972-(0)54-8354264
email: asaf@mindbody.co.il

Asaf Rolef Ben-Shahar
Asef Rolef Ben-Sharar

 

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j.a.holmes@btinternet.com

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Judith Rustin
"
Infant Research and Neuroscience at Work in Psychotherapy: Expanding the Clinical Repertoire"
(Norton, New York 2013)

Translating recent neuroscience and infant research to clinical practice.

By decoding the scientific data, this book explains how recent findings from brain and infant research can expand a clinician’s understanding of the therapist-client relationship and, in turn, improve how therapy is done. Offering clinical insights into key developmental mechanisms, Judith Rustin highlights the possibilities for new and creative treatment protocols. She summarizes and synthesizes basic concepts and ideas derived from infant research and neuroscience for clinicians not familiar with the literature. Using examples from her own practice to show how a clinician might integrate these concepts into psychodynamic practice, she invites other clinicians to experiment with finding their own pathways to integration of this valuable material in the clinical endeavor. Rustin explains how self- and mutual regulation (or bidirectional interaction)—concepts of which are both firmly grounded in the dyadic systems model of interaction—develop in infancy, how they contribute to a growing sense of self, and how they ultimately serve as templates for future interactions with others. She explains and shows how an understanding of them enriches a two-person perspective in clinical work. She then focuses on the brain science behind four additional concepts, each of which has particular application to clinical work: memory, the mind–body connection, the fear system, and mirror neurons and the concept of shared circuitry. Clinical material is interwoven with explications of each concept.

http://books.wwnorton.com/books/detail.aspx?ID=23872
http://www.amazon.com

Griffin Hansbury
Judith Rustin

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REVIEWS of Books and Articles

Sebastiano Santostefano

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


First to Last Picking
Elisabeth Hasnscombe

 

Elisabeth Hancombe review of The Fifth Principle by Paul Williams
(Karnac Books, Lonfon 2012)

Paul Williams prefaces his book, The Fifth Principle – the first of three to constitute his memoirs – with the following words, “The author of the book, and the individual written about, are not the same person…”. (p. 9) Williams thereby gives voice to the notion that when we write about our past we write about it from a different persona, namely that of the adult who looks back.  The author and the narrator, the child whose story his adult self tells, are not the same.  Williams goes on to describe his book as “a piece of literature that furnishes an account of the methods of a mind in its efforts to prevail in oppressive circumstances…”.(p. 9)  In this way he offers a psychoanalytic glimpse into the world of his troubled child-self through the lens of his later experience. 

While I was reading, and in spite of my desire to keep my copy unsullied for posterity, I found myself  underlining whole paragraphs of Williams’s book.   So many of his words speak to me.  They are like gems of light in the darkness of an otherwise horrific childhood.  As Eric Rhode writes on the book’s back cover blurb “the mystery is that he [Williams] survived, and what is more, survived as a talented, intelligent, resourceful person.”   Even more than these adjectives suggest, Williams is an outstanding psychoanalyst and writer, who from 2001-2007 was editor in chief with Glen Gabbard of the International Journal of Psychoanalysi.

Williams continues in his preface, “The author has undertaken, on behalf of the subject, to provide a faithful, intelligible rendering of unintelligible events.”(p. 9)   He hopes however that the “mind in question, in so far as it resembles other minds, will speak to the reader in ways that are recognisable…and the extent to which the account finds a home in the mind and imagination of the reader will be the measure of its worth.”(p. 9)   As one reader who resonates with the poignancy and almost unbearable load of pain in this account, I am especially grateful to Williams for his ability to bring to life his experience of childhood shame. 

It is as if Williams writes his own case history, in some ways following in the footsteps of Freud, though unlike Freud, Williams does not disguise his identity behind the third person.  In this sense Williams’s writing demonstrates how useful it is for a psychoanalyst to come out from behind his professional role and life to write a memoir. 

Williams divides his short book into several sections to cover the broad themes of memories, wrong, school, badness, lies, hunger, drugs, murder, and finally, The Fifth Principle.  Throughout the book, he elaborates on his five principles, which Williams adopted throughout his childhood into adulthood from his earliest memories onwards.  These principles can be considered defensive renderings of his basic attempts to survive a relentlessly cruel mother and a feckless and largely absent, alcoholic father.  The writing is spare, polished and intelligent, almost poetic in its tendency towards understatement. 

The reader is left to shudder at the life Paul Williams led, such an eloquent man today, such a silent boy then, whose mother hates him from the moment of his birth because he is not the daughter, Carole, to whom she had previously given birth but later lost.  Spurned as well by his father, the boy learns, even as a three year old, to keep himself invisible.  He scavenges for food and spends much of his time alone in the woods.

In order to survive Williams develops other strategies based on the five principles in his mind.  These principles include the notion that “nothing is true,”  that “everything” he does “is wrong,” that anger will keep him alive, and in time if he ‘works twice as hard as anyone else then he might be able to live a life that approximates a normal life.” (p.127)  It is Williams’s final and fifth principle, developed later in his life, that takes my fancy.  We read the words at the beginning of the book – Principle Five :”Fuck it” –  but there at the beginning, tacked onto the end of the other four principles, it seems to be very much connected with similar nihilistic impulses.  It is only when we get to the end of the book and several years into his adulthood that Williams offers a different meaning to the words “fuck It.” (p. 122)  And,  this meaning appeals to me.  It is all in the intonation.  The Fifth Principle enables Williams to undo the previous four. 

Through the experience of his writing, and presumably through his psychoanalytic work, Williams tells us, “By immersing myself deeply in the past and allowing its significance and meaning to touch every part of me, I became able to free myself of its hold over me.” (p. 124)  He comes to this in the second half of his life along with the realization that “living according to the Fifth Principle made it possible to evolve from a disturbed person into a strange person.”(p. 126)  The word “strange”  here, like the expression, “fuck it,”  is open to interpretation, but I support Williams in his hope “that more strange people venture into the world.” (p. 126)  And so he leaves us at the end of this first book, with an acknowledgement of the value of strangeness in a person, rather than of conformity and narrowness.  It is a fine introduction to the next book in his trilogy.  

In this way, too, Williams offers us his readers, by way of identification, a type of permission to stop trying so hard, and to be more respectful of ourselves, of where we come from and of whom we become.  I look forward to reading his second and third autobiographical books.

http://www.amazon.com

Elisabeth Hanscombe
hanscombe@netspace.net.au
My postal address is: 
326 Riversdale Road
Hawthorn East, 3123
Melbourne, Vic. Australia
Telephone +61 03 9882 4159

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Michael Eigen

Helene Beinoglou-Negri
Destructiveness and Aliveness
reflections on
On Winnicott’s clinical innovations in the analysis of adults
by Michael Eigen
(International Journal of Psychoanalysis 2012 93:1449–1459)

The IARPP Bookshelf has given me the opportunity to thank Michael Eigen for his recent article , “On Winnicott’s Clinical Innovations in the Analysis of Adults.”  It stays in me as a living being and keeps on expanding as time goes by. For this reason, I thought I would like to say a few words about it.

In 1968 Winnicott told Eigen about a female patient who, during a session,  seemed to attempt to grasp Winnicott’s image in her hand-held  mirror. Winnicott, not tolerating being off center in the mirror,  moved himself into the reflection. His patient reacted violently to Winnicott’s “mistake.”  Winnicott’s patient needed to place her therapist “ off center.”  In his discussion,  Eigen clarified this clinical moment for me as the patient’s way to create a “corrective experience.” Her mother had always imposed herself in her daughter’s psychical world. By daring to put her therapist off  center the patient became more alive.

The holding function, so essential to the development of an individual,  must be present but  also remain almost unnoticed by the recipient whether he is a child or an adult. As a parent or as a therapist we should  take caution to be with the ones that need us without taking center stage.

The people that count the most  to a child or to a patient should allow themselves to be “off center” in the person’s life. In this way they help the child or the patient to discover his or her  aliveness and creativity.  It is a gift that permits a welcome  aloneness. An aloneness that keeps one connected to the world, it is a state of quietude which can promote aliveness and creativity.

However, aliveness destroys what is established. It unsettles the stability that we also desire. Thus, our life is a constant search for a balance between our destructive feelings and the way to survive them. Owning our destructive feelings instead of dissociating them, like Winnicott's patient, opens up the road to resilience and furthers aliveness and creativity.

hbeinoglou@hotmail.com

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ARTICLES

The Power of Witnessing

Dianne Elise
Contributor of an article in a new book:
The Clinical Problem of Masochism
D. Holtzman & N. Kulish (Eds.), 2012, Aronson

"Failure to Thrive: Shame, Inhibition, and Masochistic Submission in Women"
I approach masochistic submission in women-- a “failure to thrive”--from the perspective of undermined female desire. Masochism can be viewed as a disorder of desire.  I conceptualize masochistic submission as a relinquishment of one’s own desire, motivated by a fear of object loss. Shame and a depleted sense of self worth lead to inhibiting one’s own desire, trying instead to fulfill the desire of the other, and typically failing to do so.  I propose that a girl’s experience that, because she is a girl, the first oedipal object--her mother—is not “accessible” now, or later, may play a role in generating a relational strategy of masochistic submission as a fearful “grasp” on the object.

http://www.amazon.com

"The Danger in Deception: Oedipal Betrayal and the Assault on Truth"
(Journal of the American Psychoanalytic Association August 2012 vol. 60 no. 4 679-705)

Certain potential precursors to heterosexual women’s experience of partner infidelity are explored as these dynamics unfold within the oedipal crisis—the “betrayal” by the oedipal objects. As each child moves into the oedipal phase, he or she comes to recognize not only desire for the mother, but the mother’s desire for the father. A doubling of this experience of “deception,” encountered first in relation to the mother, and then repeated with the father, may be especially pronounced for a girl, as she is likely to inhabit more fully her bisexual potential in negotiating the expected shift of object choice from mother to father. “Deceived” by her primary maternal oedipal object, a girl sets forth toward her paternal oedipal object with “fidelity” already an issue, and with faith in her mind’s ability to determine reality already shaken. Undermined trust in self and other is the context in which she begins the oedipal relation to her heterosexual object. This path is quite distinct from that traveled by the heterosexual boy. Clinical material illustrates the assault on one’s mind, on one’s confidence to determine what is true, that is a central aspect of both oedipal and adult betrayal.

http://apa.sagepub.com/content/60/4/679.full

Dianne Elise, Ph.D.
5435 College Ave, #106
Oakland, CA 94618
510 653 5575
elised@earthlink.net

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Steve Kuchuck

Steven Kuchuck
"Please (Don’t) Want Me: The Therapeutic Action of
Male Sexual Desire in the Treatment of Heterosexual Men"
(Contemporary Psychoanalysis 2012 Volume 48, issue 4 pp 544-562)

stevenkuchuck@gmail.com

 

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Noreen O’Connor
"'Here I am!' - Irreducible Invocation of the Other"
from The Bonds of Love at 25: A Collection of Essays, Part 2
(Studies in Gender and Sexuality, Taylor and Francis, Philadelphia 2013
Vol. 14, No. 1. pp. 78 - 86.)

The Bonds of Love (Benjamin, 1988) continues to inaugurate new horizons for critical reflection on the psychoanalytic theorizing of human relationships in terms of unconscious-conscious dynamics with its inevitable insertion in different sociocultural constructions of power practices. I follow Benjamin philosophically through post-Hegelian critical social/political theorists, particularly Habermas, and psychoanalytically through her respect for Winnicott's analyses of early developmental struggles for individuality in the face of fear of loss and destructiveness. Philosophical/Psychoanalytic inspiration carries her quest. This article excavates questions weaving throughout the book:  Is an ideal of recognizing ourselves and others as "free" individual subjects possible? Could a psychoanalytical dialectics help us to live more responsibly with each other's differences not withstanding ineradicablepast trauma? Is there possibility of life together, even in our gender differences, beyond the dialectical spell of erotic domination/submission?

Noreen O'Connor
Upper Maisonette, 78 Huddleston Road
London N7 0EG, UK
noreenoconnor17@gmail.com

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Paul Renn

Paul Renn
“Moments of Meeting: The Relational Challenges of Sexuality in the Consulting Room”   
(British Journal of Psychotherapy, 29(2), May 2013).

Abstract: In this paper, I explore the relational challenges of sexuality in the consulting room, as informed by developmental studies and “moments” theory, and discuss the contentious issue of self-disclosure. I acknowledge that there has been a hiatus in recent decades in the discussion of psychosexuality in psychoanalysis, linked to a shift from Freud’s drive theory to post-Freudian developmental theories, as well as to the change in the role of the therapist that this has entailed. While I also acknowledge that these changes have resulted in a certain de-eroticization and de-sexualization of psychoanalysis, I point to research showing that sexuality is, in fact, very much alive in the consulting room, but also to a gap in training on such issues, and to a concomitant lacuna in the literature discussing sexual attraction between therapist and patient. Before discussing the ethical and relational challenges of sexuality in the consulting room, I summarize the evolution of sexuality in psychoanalytic thinking and briefly discuss relevant developmental perspectives. I question the view that a developmental model is not suited to effectively working with sexual material. I illustrate theoretical points with a clinical case study, a development of previously published work (Renn, 2012). 

paul_renn2003@yahoo.co.uk

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Barry Magid Barry Magid was interviewed in the March 2013 issue of Shambhala Sun.

He explained that "the difference between psychoanalysis and psychotherapy is that psychoanalysis doesn't help anyone. While psychotherapies, broadly speaking, are problem solving techniques,  psychoanalysis, like Zen Buddhism, is an open ended process, not a means to a predetermined end. They are the opposite of self help or self improvement, yet, paradoxically, each can be profoundly transformative."

Click here to read more: http://shambhalasun.com/sunspace/?p=30900

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Paper Presentations

Jack Danielian and Patricia Gianotti
“The Unfinished Theory of Shame and Violence"
Adapted from their book Listening with Purpose: Entry Points into Shame and Narcissistic Vulnerability 
(Jason Aronson, The Rowman & Littlefiled Publishing Group, Inc 2012)

The book is an intensive training manual based on an in-depth examination of shame and its unacknowledged sequelae in our culture and in our personal lives. The book lays the philosophical groundwork  for moving from the Eurocentric concept of guilt to a more trauma-sensitive and experience-based focus on shame. There will be more papers spun off from our book, illuminating shame-drenched behavior in various areas of our culture and in various blind spots in our profession.   Click here to see a flyer for the book. (IARPP Bookshelf Oct 2012 Review)

Abridged version of  “The Unfinished Theory of Shame and Violence

Narcissism has endured a strange fate in the history of mental health disorders. It has been by turns discovered, ignored, misunderstood, and rediscovered for over a century, seemingly in a never-ending cycle.

An especially worrisome development has been recently occurring: we are facing a paradoxical split in which public communication in print, radio, TV, and electronic media is rife with explicit references to narcissism and to its core emotion of shame, while the professional leadership of our mental health disciplines pays less and less attention to the disorder. Eerily, is the current split paralleling the internal dissociative splitting we see in narcissistic mechanisms?

The existing DSM 4 Manual (1994) devotes 590 pages of fastidious attention to discrete symptom classifications but a mere 44 pages to clinical symptoms of character and personality disturbances. Narcissistic disorders themselves receive four pages of attention. An unsuspecting reader might conclude that character and personality disorders are becoming professionally insignificant or are even vanishing as an issue in the treatment of psychopathology. Some of the drafters of DSM 5 ask whether narcissism should be included at all.

In this violent age of Columbine and Sandy Hook, it is difficult to determine which party lives in greater dissociation, the lay public or the mental health profession. Repeated and mutually reinforcing cycles of denial of shame by parent, child, and society can lead to unexplained and seemingly random acts of violence. In fact, the forensic psychiatrist Michael Stone (2013) documents that most mass murders are committed by “young males who’ve been… humiliated” and show elements of “narcissism”. Yet, as we have noted, dissociative and disconnected reactions to fuller acknowledgment and understanding of narcissism have been a longstanding occurrence in our field and in our society, leading to remarkably spotty, fitful, and discontinuous progress in efficacious treatment.

http://www.amazon.com

Patricia Gianotti, Jack DanielianPatricia Gianotti, Jack Danielian

 

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Ruth Lijtmaer
presented the following papers:
Where is home?: Issues of Immigration and Identity"
New Jersey Psychoanalytic Society, January 15, 2013 at Hackensack Hospital, Hackensack, New Jersey, USA and

"Social class, social reality and power: Emphasis on the Latino poor", February 15 to 16, 2013 at The Winter Roundtable, Columbia University, New York City, New York USA.

ruth.lijtmaer@verizon.net

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